Okay, did I really just overreact about this? (Sorry, it's REALLY long.)?

no, who cares what they think. u are ur own person u can talk to anybody u want. so what if u had a small crush on him, u guys didnt do anything. ur friend must love drama(a lot of teens do.) thats all it was, u guys didnt do anything and ur friend shouldn't be the boss of who u talk to. i would just let go cuz its not worth it, but if she was a good friend she wouldve stayed out of it.